It's CoMpLiCaTed!!


Don’t we miss those days when we were all so innocent, without broken hearts. We were so beautiful. Why couldn’t we all stay that way? But then ,as they say “shit   happens”..
WHY ONLY ME? This is the most obvious question that each one of us has coz we think that we lead the most complicated lives..No offence to the assumption coz our lives are INDEED extremely complicated, but then, we fail to acknowledge the fact that we belong to this one big family where thousands of us share the same sentiments and off-course crib about it in the best possible way we can. People say, stop cribbing for it won’t make things any better, but Why pay heed? Giving advice when you are NOT at the receiving end is the easiest and the best thing to do coz empathizing is not everyone’s cup of tea..So, I say CRIB, CRY, SCREAM,YELL, do all that you can and all that you wish to for all this certainly won’t make matters worse .And We have all the rights to let that feeling out, which irritates us, annoys us and even kills us from within at times

Even fairy-tales have a dark side, so all those lives which seem to us the most perfect, the most adorable and probably makes us envy them may actually not be what they seem to. Behind that plastic smile lies layers of thoughts where we overanalyze situations and apparently complicate our lives even more .Some “intelligent heads” say, we create unnecessary havoc , for there is no genuine problem, We only complicate stuff and then make a deal out of it.If only those “half-baked” heads could take a leap back into time and rewind the memories of their teenage and post-teenage days, they could realize that every day of their life was a struggle. The struggle that we have to do, to achieve a perfect balance,  to meet those expectations, look at the world in a better way. Every day we go to bed with the feeling that living this day was as big as making a conquest in a war.By hook or by crook, as long as we manage to do it..
And then those days when things go absolutely haywire, broken hearts, sleepless nights, teary eyes, miserable mornings, thoughts which don’t cease to flood our brains..And all we do is think..Think..Think ..try to figure out ,what is going wrong.Yet, no one gets an idea and all we do is fight, fight those internal conflicts, try to overpower that vulnerability, strike a perfect balance of emotions and try our best to apply our minds in matters of hearts..There is love, there is happiness but what we experience is betrayal ,hatred, selfishness and all that jazz..And we suddenly realize, how much do we have to deal with, trying to gauge the flow, trying to figure out what do we want, when our self-imposed restrictions take a back-seat and all we have is hopelessness and despair..And more often than not, we end up as an emotional wreck.This never ending drama definitely does not have a solution.. 

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