With a Pinch of Salt....

Weird creatures women are..They will have a thousand reasons to let-go, yet they manage to find ONE good reason NOT to..and then they stick by, no matter what..Their desperate attempts to resolve their inner conflicts often disables their ability to keep their emotions in a dormant state. I stand against the common belief that women cry to get things done their way! No, they are not believers of drama..They cry because they HOLD ON! In-spite of not wanting to! In-spite of not being able to Women are hard to love but when they love; it is really hard!  Why treat them like some species from a different planet.They are humans too..They get their hearts broken, mostly at the wrong time by the wrong people for they often give out right pieces of them to the most wrong people. And yet,  they never regret it.  They are not weak, vulnerable or fragile. They are guided by the constant fear of things falling apart and that's why they work to ward it off.  A women, no matt...

Oh well! Let us just fall for people who are ready to catch us. It isn't that simple. Is it? Well more often than not, the same two people fall for each other and then what follows is a " happily ever after". And that leaves me wondering as to how big a co-incidence that is. Well, relationships are a co-incidence. Love is not. Sometimes we spend the whole of our lives looking for love and then end up discovering that it was there all this while, all along and yet we failed to notice it. Well this is too mainstream. Girl meets Boy or Boy meets girl and everyone knows that they are meant to be together but their own insecurities keep them away and ultimately they get over it and end up being together and all that jazz. BULLSHIT!!  It isn't about what ultimately happens. It's the journey that matters. It's that feeling of getting up in the morning with that one person in your mind and going off to bed thinking about the same person, every single ...

Once upon a time there was a girl who used to write.Not that did she formally and officially stop writing , but the hiatus was big enough for people to forget about it. Infact she had almost forgotten about it until a reason compelling enough came her way and picking up the pen was simply inevitable. Well, lets stop talking in third person and get back to the drama..It's been so long that I had started feeling that I was loosing a part of myself.Life keeps us busy and small things like these  take a backseat! Well, I don't think so. No one is really busy in this world, it's ultimately about priorities.We make our own choices and lack of time is no excuse for it.It's simply lack of interest.So yeah! The law school drama was way too hot for me to handle (it still is and it will always be :P ) yet i don't blame my so called "hectic schedule" for not giving me the time to write! all guilt and regret aside, Deepshi is back! *round of applause* Well tod...

Almost a year into college, Less than a month away from turning 19(the last year of being a teenager L ) a new chapter in life awaits. Makes me wonder, how time flies ,how those desperate attempts of not wanting to face the “real bad world”  go in vain, how the experiences that we gain end up molding our entire thought process, the people we meet, their role in shaping our opinions and their influences in our life. There are highs and off-course the lows and yes! we fall (not just in love :P) and then get up..We try our level best not to fall again but in the entire process we end up discovering that falling is inevitable, all we learn is getting up and moving on. And eventually we realize that the interval at which we fall gets bigger, which actually comes across as the only respite and a big one indeed..We learn…We grow…We mature! These talks of maturity coming from someone like ME ! Which is apparently quite contrary to my supposed image..BUT NOW, I JUST D...

The entire thought of “growing up” is so intricate and baffling that I totally dread it. That spark of randomness , that hint of spontaneity gets totally lost in the process where we believe that just because we have gown old, we have grown up. Why let go of something you are used to, and why become something which you are not? Its about losing some illusions to acquire a new one, and that process is so terribly hard that it makes you wonder if you could just switch from one childhood to other. It happens when you start having things you look back on and then wish’d if you could change it, When you have to shut up, swallow your pride and accept that you are wrong, When you learn to give up. The day when you have your first real laugh at yourself! Sometimes growing up also means growing APART.  And the hardest thing is that you are compelled to do what is right for you even if it breaks your heart. Infact the real trouble with the world begins when too many pe...

Don’t we miss those days when we were all so innocent, without broken hearts. We were so beautiful. Why couldn’t we all stay that way? But then ,as they say “shit   happens ”.. WHY ONLY ME? This is the most obvious question that each one of us has coz we think that we lead the most complicated lives..No offence to the assumption coz our lives are INDEED extremely complicated, but then, we fail to acknowledge the fact that we belong to this one big family where thousands of us share the same sentiments and off-course crib about it in the best possible way we can. People say, stop cribbing for it won’t make things any better, but Why pay heed? Giving advice when you are NOT at the receiving end is the easiest and the best thing to do coz empathizing is not everyone’s cup of tea..So, I say CRIB, CRY, SCREAM,YELL, do all that you can and all that you wish to for all this certainly won’t make matters worse .And We have all the rights to let that feeling out, wh...