Of changing priorities!!

Once upon a time there was a girl who used to write.Not that did she formally and officially stop writing , but the hiatus was big enough for people to forget about it. Infact she had almost forgotten about it until a reason compelling enough came her way and picking up the pen was simply inevitable.

Well, lets stop talking in third person and get back to the drama..It's been so long that I had started feeling that I was loosing a part of myself.Life keeps us busy and small things like these  take a backseat! Well, I don't think so. No one is really busy in this world, it's ultimately about priorities.We make our own choices and lack of time is no excuse for it.It's simply lack of interest.So yeah! The law school drama was way too hot for me to handle (it still is and it will always be :P ) yet i don't blame my so called "hectic schedule" for not giving me the time to write! all guilt and regret aside, Deepshi is back! *round of applause*

Well today it isn't gonna be about Shahrukh Khan or Virat Kohli or Maybe even Narendra Modi ( well, he is the hot property right now, or hottest should I say) , Infact even I don't know what is it gonna be about! I think that's the best part..Just let the thoughts flow and pen them down for I am most definitely NoT writing an essay for an examination that there is a topic I have to stick to.

Talking about life and time and priorities , one thing I've realized over the last few months is that Priorities change! they change like HELL!! trust me, mine did…That does not mean I feel bad about it, it's like Now I know that this is how it is gonna be..People will come and Go..There are these people who at one point of time mean so much to you that life seems impossible without them but at another moment they become a thing of the past! And it's never a conscious decision on our part, circumstances compel us to.Yeah, we may pick and chose people who we want to be close to! but that also keeps varying.At some point of time we are closer to someone and then someone else takes over, most of the times it's from both the ends but sometimes we also end up breaking expectations of people..And the worst part is we can't help it! these intricately woven human relationships are complex and such decisions  may appear to be voluntary but more often than not they are circumstantial.So essentially the point is that our lives always revolve around a people but it is not always necessary that there will be the same set of people.Whether we like it or not, whether we want it or not..Priorities will keep on changing, the process of acceptance maybe a long drawn out one but it does eventually arrive for we never really have a plethora of choices..Under those limitations and constraints we pick and chose people , the ones we find appropriate and more often than not it does work to our advantage, sometimes it does not! but all this becomes a learning experience..We know people better, we make careful choices in the future , we learn to live! And that's how we make our lives better.

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