Woes of women


Weird creatures women are..They will have a thousand reasons to let-go, yet they manage to find ONE good reason NOT to..and then they stick by, no matter what..Their desperate attempts to resolve their inner conflicts often disables their ability to keep their emotions in a dormant state. I stand against the common belief that women cry to get things done their way! No, they are not believers of drama..They cry because they HOLD ON! In-spite of not wanting to! In-spite of not being able to
Women are hard to love but when they love; it is really hard!  Why treat them like some species from a different planet.They are humans too..They get their hearts broken, mostly at the wrong time by the wrong people for they often give out right pieces of them to the most wrong people. And yet,  they never regret it. 
They are not weak, vulnerable or fragile. They are guided by the constant fear of things falling apart and that's why they work to ward it off. 
A women, no matter how much you hate her, scream at her or shout at her will always listen to you, will try to calm you down.. She doesnt compromise on her self respect but she keeps aside her EGO because she values her emotional investments.She puts herself in an inferior position not because she deserves it , but because she wants you to give YOU an upper hand.Not because she can't do without you, but because she knows you can't do without her, not because she is desperate but because she is forgiving. She gives a part of herself to you, which she knows will break her, yet she does that coz that part of hers stops you from you breaking. 
She recognizes the essential goodness present in every human being, because she is a good human being herself. Being a woman certainly doesn't come with ease. Every day of her life tests her patience. That  excruciating pain of falling down and getting up all over again, EVERY SINGLE DAY certainly doesn't go away with ease. And yet with teary eyes and broken hearts, they manage to make the world around them a better place to live. Because they only GIVE and never EXPECT!
Cheers to all women..They build lives.

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