"Mine" "Forever"
Things! People! Places!
You say, THAT is mine, HE is mine, SHE is mine.. Mind you, "MINE" is "your" word.
When I say, something is mine or someone is "mine" it comes with a "forever" clause and that is only when I am sure that the person or the thing is going to last for an eternity.
But do they really? Because sometimes, the most permanent things perish at the bat of an eye-lid, leaving you wondering how did I let it go.
The process of letting go, comes to you naturally, you don't have to make it happen. So, what is it with the "forever" clause? You stamp people with the "mine" tag even if they don't want to. Your desire to have them forever, consumes you in a way nothing else does and your constant efforts to stick to them take different dimensions.
People have INTOXICATING influences on your life, you may not have the same on theirs.
On things that I do, someone always tells me " That's how you function, you can't ask me to function the same way, because I am not YOU".
Yes, Even of your rip your heart all apart and give it to them, it still doesn't guarantee the "mine" tag.
Your exuberance is greeted with absolute nonchalance, your equations stand on shaky grounds constantly under the fear of being jeopardized on every possible equation. And yet your heart refuses to GIVE UP!
You plan a "forever" and now you are too scared to let it fall apart. But do forevers exist in reality?
Aren't happily ever afters only a part of fairytales?
So even when we have lost hopes and sob stories, why do we still stick to the idea of "forevers"?
Maybe we could just pause and think if it is really worth the fight. Coz the popular belief says that whatever is meant to be will eventually find its way back. So let it be, and just BREATHE!
Yes Breathe! Even if it suffocates you and you are ultimately left gasping. Yes Let it go because that is how you know if you can do without it and that is how you know if it is gonna come back to you eventually coz sometimes you discover love in the wrong people and at the wrong places and mostly at the wrong times yet you believe it is the right thing for you to do.
Forevers aren't straight, they are circular coz you always keep coming back to the same person and that's how you know you belong there. And then you say "he is mine" or "she is mine" which is absolutely harmless but the truth my child is you may believe that "they are yours", you may not be theirs.
Even then, it is ultimately about that unflinching faith. What you believe is "yours" will be "yours forever' even if that is a superficial temptation. Even if it may not seem like the right thing in the longer run it certainly makes things better and blissful NOW!.
It is okay to live in your self-crafted fairytale world as long as you get over those reality check which will crush you to pieces every single day. Over thinking will mess with your head and play with your heart and in the end you which have "happy realization" which, much to your dismay and agony will be futile.
Yet! I would strongly suggest, switch on your escape mode and proudly say this one is #mine #forever.
You say, THAT is mine, HE is mine, SHE is mine.. Mind you, "MINE" is "your" word.
When I say, something is mine or someone is "mine" it comes with a "forever" clause and that is only when I am sure that the person or the thing is going to last for an eternity.
But do they really? Because sometimes, the most permanent things perish at the bat of an eye-lid, leaving you wondering how did I let it go.
The process of letting go, comes to you naturally, you don't have to make it happen. So, what is it with the "forever" clause? You stamp people with the "mine" tag even if they don't want to. Your desire to have them forever, consumes you in a way nothing else does and your constant efforts to stick to them take different dimensions.
People have INTOXICATING influences on your life, you may not have the same on theirs.
On things that I do, someone always tells me " That's how you function, you can't ask me to function the same way, because I am not YOU".
Yes, Even of your rip your heart all apart and give it to them, it still doesn't guarantee the "mine" tag.
Your exuberance is greeted with absolute nonchalance, your equations stand on shaky grounds constantly under the fear of being jeopardized on every possible equation. And yet your heart refuses to GIVE UP!
You plan a "forever" and now you are too scared to let it fall apart. But do forevers exist in reality?
Aren't happily ever afters only a part of fairytales?
So even when we have lost hopes and sob stories, why do we still stick to the idea of "forevers"?
Maybe we could just pause and think if it is really worth the fight. Coz the popular belief says that whatever is meant to be will eventually find its way back. So let it be, and just BREATHE!
Yes Breathe! Even if it suffocates you and you are ultimately left gasping. Yes Let it go because that is how you know if you can do without it and that is how you know if it is gonna come back to you eventually coz sometimes you discover love in the wrong people and at the wrong places and mostly at the wrong times yet you believe it is the right thing for you to do.
Forevers aren't straight, they are circular coz you always keep coming back to the same person and that's how you know you belong there. And then you say "he is mine" or "she is mine" which is absolutely harmless but the truth my child is you may believe that "they are yours", you may not be theirs.
Even then, it is ultimately about that unflinching faith. What you believe is "yours" will be "yours forever' even if that is a superficial temptation. Even if it may not seem like the right thing in the longer run it certainly makes things better and blissful NOW!.
It is okay to live in your self-crafted fairytale world as long as you get over those reality check which will crush you to pieces every single day. Over thinking will mess with your head and play with your heart and in the end you which have "happy realization" which, much to your dismay and agony will be futile.
Yet! I would strongly suggest, switch on your escape mode and proudly say this one is #mine #forever.
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